Friendship

Friendship isn't and shouldn't be based on agreement or disagreement. The major problem with FB and other so-called "social media" apps is that there is a tacit belief that if you like what I say, that we somehow have a bond, are "friends" and are on the same "side". And, of course, if we disagree on an issue, we are estranged and are permanently suspect. Nothing could be farther from the truth.

If you are my "friend", it is in spite of FB, not because of it. And even so, the term "friend" has been so diluted and misapplied that it is practically meaningless. Perhaps it would be wise to try out some other relationship descriptions in order to properly emphasize the depth of a one's affection and connection to another person.

To start with, I've always liked the word "confidant". It implies someone with whom one shares a special trust. Someone who would never take advantage of a vulnerability or trumpet a failure. It is imbued with mutual respect and understanding. The femine version is often spelled "confidante ".

Next, how about "boon companion"? It's a term full of promise of time we'll spent. I've been fortunate to have some very good ones in my life and the anticipation of a shared adventure, a romp about, fills me with joy and appreciation for our closeness.

Another term for a person with whom one has a close relationship is "intimate". While often used as an adjective or verb, as a noun it functions nicely to identify a person with whom one has a special connection based on mutual experience and trust. For many people the word might intimate additional meaning, but it doesn't have to.

And of course, there many, many other ways to refer to our "friends". Comrade, pal, sister, girlfriend, buddy, chum, amigo, chica, compadre, ally, etc. 

Finally,  language is our most frequently used tool to express what we feel and believe. It behooves us to take the time to reach for words that carry the weight and significance of our love and admiration for those we care about. FRIEND is a great word; and real friendship is worth preserving in both word and deed.